However, because they seldom hear (apart from our local youth group discussions on chastity) about what activities they should avoid to really be chaste, they often come back, get into French kissing with their boyfriends or girlfriends, and end up having sex. Some we come to know about because they have the baby. The point of all this is that it just isn't enough to encourage and even convince young people that they should be chaste in their relationships.
Many high school students are unaware that there is another type of kissing. French kissing, because it's so highly stimulating is almost an implicit invitation to have. We need to tell them what specific behavior they should avoid, and I submit, what good behavior they can replace the bad behavior with.
While dating is part of life it should, like marriage, not be your only social outlet.
Even marriages require that the spouses keep their outside friendships to prevent the spouses becoming stale and narrow, and while friendships must never disempower a marriage, dating should not disempower friendships.
Avoid TV shows, movies, magazines, music, clothing, etc.
He/she seeks purity of heart in his/her actions iv. Perhaps many of the young girls who do it don't realize just what is happening to their boyfriend when they kiss this way, but the boys know. In this article I hope to give evidence that French kissing in courtship at any age is sinful and so is long-term kissing on a couch.And, they complain, "Why are you getting me so turned on if you don't want to have sex? And, I will present a beautiful way of affection that a number of young people have used to replace this behavior, a way that has moved them from unchastity to chastity. The key Church teaching on chastity is found in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC), "Sexual pleasure is morally disordered when sought for itself, isolated from its procreative and unitive purposes." (CCC 2351) The unitive purpose implies the celebration of the existing marital love covenant. As a young guy himself, Jason knows that marriage is often the farthest thing from teenagers' minds when they're with someone of the opposite sex.The conversation went like this: : Okay, let's suppose that right now, some guy is trying to manipulate that girl, the one you're going to marry, to do with him what you said you'd like to do with your current girlfriend. Wouldn't it bug you just a little that right now, this guy is pressuring your future wife to do this?